Be Careful, But Don’t Overthink!

This is something I’m still personally working on. It’s more than being indecisive about where to park in an empty parking lot, or choosing something to eat from a decked out menu in a restaurant. It’s walking the fine line between caution and recklessness. It applies to so many aspects of life. For example, right…

Racial Attraction

One day, a little while ago, while I was browsing around the internet minding my own business, a headline caught my eye about actress Issa Rae catching the ire and wrath of Black Twitter. Apparently, she made a statement about her fellow black sistas not being appealing to people of different races. Honestly, I had…


I read this article ages ago. It listed some signs that people might miss as signs that someone is into you pass off as just being friendly or polite. As someone who is always overthinking and reading too much into things, I can relate to this! I would try to counter overthinking and deny these…


Online Friending and Dating

New city, new friends, new pool of dating potential? I had so much apprehension joining dating apps. I never felt like I needed to. I felt like I met enough people organically and when I wasn’t talking to anyone, I really enjoyed being single. I started enjoying being single so much that I took myself…

He’s Just Really Not That Into You

Here’s a list of things from this article I related to when I had to come to terms with a guy who was just really not that into me. ““Texting is the easiest thing he can do and he couldn’t even keep that up, so I knew that if he wasn’t keeping the communication going…

Never be Ashamed of How Much You Love

“Never be ashamed of how much you love, or how quickly you fall. Love fully, love completely, but most importantly, love naturally – and don’t you ever apologize for it. Don’t ever be sorry for loving the way you heart knows how.”