Can You Disagree and Still Show Support?

Too often we confuse support with agreement. You and I can support decisions that we don’t wholeheartedly agree with. It requires a greater purpose. It requires a commitment to a team, or an overarching objective, that supersedes the decision itself. Can you respect your friend’s opinion without agreeing with it? Are you faced with aContinue reading “Can You Disagree and Still Show Support?”

Cool Girl?

I am DIGGING this song right now! The “Cool Girl” annoys me. The concept, expectation, and dating-survival-requirement of her bothers me. I’m not one. I’m not a cool girl. I can’t get it done. But that’s OKAY. I’m intense with feelings. The game is pathetic and this is the part that really gets me: Being the coolContinue reading “Cool Girl?”

Chivalry – Still not dead!

As you might have realised by now, I love topics about relationships and how the differences between men and women help or hinder us from understanding each other. This week I was having some conversations with my group of female friends and a few one-on-one chats with some male friends. One of the topics wasContinue reading “Chivalry – Still not dead!”

Not Settling!

I read this article about why settling down doesn’t mean you’re settling and here’s what stood out for me: “Too many people think they are going to have to stop doing the things that make them happy if they get into a relationship.” (like hanging with their friends or going on trips or activities) But actuallyContinue reading “Not Settling!”